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Although many studies
have shown a child's
family - in particular
parents - have the most
influence on the child's
behavior, those same
parents are rightfully
concerned about the
pressure put on their
children by peers.
As we send out next
generation back to
school, here are some
tips on helping them
learn to deal with peer
pressure.
Back to
School: Help Your Child Manage Peer Pressure
 SAN
DIEGO, July 12 /PRNewswire/ -- Over 6 million students will
enroll in California's elementary and high schools this fall,
many of whom will face the fear of "fitting in" or being
"popular." The California Association of Marriage and Family
Therapists reminds parents and guardians they are the first
line of defense for children susceptible to developing a
negative self-image as a result of school-related social
situations.
To help children of all ages develop
as individuals, maintain a positive outlook and successfully
socialize at school, parents
 should praise their children for
their accomplishments and nurture special talents and
interests. In addition, parents can stay involved with their
children by encouraging family discussions.
-- Talk to your children about drinking, drugs and other
behaviors that are harmful. This will allow open communication
and help you better understand your children's opinions.
-- Talk to your children about some of the concerns or
pressures they may be experiencing at school or in other
social settings.
-- Help your children prioritize items that are important.
Setting achievement goals will help keep your children
focused.
-- Use television shows and movies to start discussions
with your children about appropriate and inappropriate ways of
responding to negative classmates and peer pressure.
 -- Invite your children's friends to your home to find out
who they are and learn more about the type of social group to
which your children belong.
-- Quickly address any concerns your children bring to you
to ensure they do not develop into long-term problems.
Consider your children's point-of-view when resolving image
issues.
Despite active participation in your
children's lives, you may find that you may be unable to help
your children solve image-related problems on your own. If you
feel
 one of your children is having a difficult time with peer
pressure, consider contacting a Marriage and Family Therapist
(MFT). Meeting with a mental health professional, such as a
MFT, can help families and children resolve image-related
issues.
About
CAMFT
The California Association of Marriage
and Family Therapists, with 27 chapters throughout the state,
is an independent professional organization, representing the
interests of licensed Marriage and Family Therapists. CAMFT
provides as a resource to the public looking for Marriage and
Family Therapists located in California. For more information
about CAMFT, please call (858) 292-2638 or visit
http://www.camft.org/.
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